You ever ask for a number and get shut down.....

Me: hey troublemaker

Her: hey there!

Me: i am that guy that loves peanut butter (wrote an email earlier to her about how she loves peanut butter...It was in her profile, if you have talked to her before, you have to jog her memory abit)

Her: oh ya!!!! hahah excellent!

Me: yeah i rock

Me: whats going on its snowing like crazy outside

Her: i kno im at work tired as hell

Me: what do you do at work?

Me: probably makin trouble there

Her: how did u know

Me: just a good guesser

Me: or i am psychic

Me: not sure yet

Her: lol maybe a combination

Me: hahaha

Me: if i only had the ninja skills

Me: then i would be a triple threat

Her: ya but i have a black belt sooo

Me: but u never told me what u do at work?

Me: hahaha as long as we never actually fight, i will be alright

Me: and i would fight dirty anyways

Her: ohmm i might like that...haha umm i work at a car dealaership (she is going along with every joke, and is thinking on a subconscious sexual level)

Me: so you are really good with your words?

Her: oh yes

Me: can i ask you a serious question

Me:what did you want to be when you grew up (i like this question because it tells alot about a person, i.e. seriousness or laid back)

Me: like when you were a little person

Her: i wanted to be a therapist for a long time (she is unique and has motivation)

Me: in what field?

Her: i dunno drugs or eating disorder or whatever really general (she could have faced these problems before)

Me: thats admirable

Me: i wanted to be a ninja turtle (my signature answer)

Me: but i found out i wasn't a turtle

Me: and no karate skills

Me: so that dream went out the window

Her: so now what

Me: psychology(this is what i am going to school for)

Me: well i am working on some stuff in interpersonnal communication

Me: kinda helping guys with dating success and girls with confidence issues (telling girls this seems to go two ways, either good or bad, but you can always make the bad into good)

Her: oh ya? (hooked)

Her: and how do u go about that

Me: yeah, but i got to get going

Me: give me your number

Her: no (did not build enough rapport, but she is still interested)

Me: alright (accept it for now, but you must go)

Her: ill ttyl (still interesed and wants to keep talking)

Me: then shoot me a e-mail if you want to know more about me (she did, and we are still talking to this day)

Her: kk

Me: have a good day at work

Me: i am going to die shoveling

Her: aww ur hotfire tho u should melt it (IOI)

Me: i wish it was that easy

Me: but it was a pleasure talking to you

Me: hope to hear from you again

Me: later gator

Her: bye hun

Although i did try to get her number, she said no. Do not let that discourage you from still talking to her, she is on this dating site for a reason. She is looking for a relationship and does expect you to get her number at some point in time, so don't let that get you down.

Stay Classy,
Hotfire