If you ever find yourself in a situation where you are talking to a girl online and due to some circumstance you didn't get her number the first time talking to her, here's what I did....
Me: Hey
Her: hey not much just getting ready for bed.. you?
Me: just got home thinkin the same thing
Me: just got to write some stuff down (stuff for this very blog, knew she would give me my new post)
Me: how was your night
Her: lol meh my night was kind of lame... i had like a million ants in one of my bags that i found... so that was fun
Her: how was yours
Me: umm good
Me: went to ihop
Me: chilled there for like 3 hrs
Her: dang 3 hours lol
Me: yeah, i love eating breakfast and shooting the shit
Me: its a passion of mine (setting the tone of the conversation, its going to be alot of playful flirting)
Her: hahaha understandably
Me: you can try it sometime (showing that I am alpha and am allowing her to do something)
Me: it usually ends up being one big inside joke
Her: thanks for allowing me to try it
Her: i just may (accepting it)
Me: hey it can be our secret (great line to use, it usually gets a laugh and good rapport)
Her: thanks. i won't tell
Me: hahaha
Me: hows your break been thus far
Her: alright i suppose. i haven't had to do any school work, so that's nice
Me: thats always a positive (the word positive evokes better feelings than the normal phrase of "thats good" you have to be different and try different and new phrases)
Her: absolutely
Me: you ready to go back?
Her: hmm... negative degree weather, homework, tests, responsibility, doing my own laundry again... not really lol
Me: hahaha
Me: it can't be all that bad
Her: there's always a bright side haha
Me: haha
Me: so when do you go back
Her: friday
Me: really (this is the point of the conversation where you have to make it about you because the conversation is becoming to generic and you have to maintain interest and make attraction)
Me: u are doing a terrible job of attempting to hang out with me
Me: just to let u know
Her: lol (not expecting that at all, good element of surprise)
Me: i mean not even a call (even though you know that she does not have your number, make it seem like its all her fault and that she is missing out)
Me: thats pretty low (icing on the blame cake)
Her: i'm in california... so... i apologize but i feel like right now there's not much i can do about that (p.s. she is on vacation)
Her: lol
Her: um how would i call you (wants the number, and you didn't even have to ask)
Me: hahaha
Me: didn't u get my number?
Her: mm nope
Me: u should of just asked
Me: (this is the part where you ask) (i actually put that part in parehetheses, treat her kinda like a child)
Me: haha
Her: lol mmm i don't really like to ask for numbers (shit test)
Her: i feel like is shouldn't really make that much effort (she wants me to earn her number, but she will give it to you regardless)
Her: lol
Her: guys usually just throw their numbers upon me (wants you to take notice that she is selected by guys all the time, this is a filter to see if you are alpha)
Me: aren't u the modest one
Me: i like your swagger (most girls never hear a guy say this, it makes you different, a very good thing)
Her: and then they wait by their phones in desperate hopes that i might actually call
Her: even a text
(a normal guy would say 1 of 2 things, a) i am not like every guy, you should just give me your number b)i am not desperate, i can get any girl
the problems with that
a) you are giving her the power and you sound needy
b) if you sound cocky she isn't going to believe you.
(both of these options are beta male, you are above this)
Me: so are u saying i am like every guy (want her reasons for why she thinks i am beta)
Her: well you haven't given me your number, but otherwise i assume so lol
Me: haha
Me: my mom warned me about girls like you (great line use this when you can)
Her: oh really... what did she say about us
Me: she said you are bad girls, u might corrupt me
Her: ha! like i haven't heard that before
Her: mothers just don't want their boys to become men
Her: LOL (she wants you to be a man and to take control of this situation)
Me: hahahahaha
Her: that sounded more kinky than i meant it to lol
Me: i noticed
Me: get your mind out of the gutter (if you can call out a girl for being sexual, you reverse the frame and go on the defensive and she will come on to you)
Her: mmm...
Her: nah (she wasn't expecting that, very generic answer)
Me: i mean do u think i am a whore? (roll with this)
Her: probably (shit test)
Me: i don't just give it up
Her: doubt it
Me: no faith
Me: there is your problem
Me: lol (don't overuse the phrase lol, it like using "I" all the time)
Her: lol
Me: give me your number (command that she do it, this way you are alpha)
Her: a little demanding, don't you think? (this is a common response when they are seeing if you are worthy of being alpha)
Me: well i pursue what i want
Me: and i feel that if i beg and plead for your number
Me: that is actually really sad on my part (explaing the difference between alpha and beta behavior)
Me: i believe if you want something, you need to take it
Me: and not pussyfoot around it
Me: be more assertive
Me: ya know
Her: this is a pretty motivational response... i feel like i'll have to give you my number after such an explanation (because I displayed that I am alpha and do not accept second class behavior from girls, she knows that I am an alpha male)
Her: although i am a little more used to begging lol (beta behavior)
Me: i can't be needy
Me: its really a turnoff (took what most girls say and told her to not act this way)
Her: lol
Me: i am different
Her: i don't doubt that lol (she is very attracted to me, because I am unique)
Her: ok
Her: get a pen
Me: i will use my typewriter
Her: (number given)
Her: lol what
Me: who gets a pen? (call her out on things of this nature, she sounded like a dork)
Me: honestly
Her: lol
Her: shut up (playful flirting back at me)
Me: now i face a problem
Me: i need a name for you in my phone (best thing you can ask a girl, it makes them feel a sense of comfort that they gave their number to you)
Her: any name?
Me: and dork is overused (make her understand that it has to be creative)
Me: so u need a cool name
Her: jerk lol how about 'never going to answer your call' (flirting)
Me: thats kinda long
Me: got anything smaller
Me: i mean i just don't want to put geek or loser
Me: i need something funny
Her: something funny? lol
Me: yup
Me: think you can come up with something
Me: i know its tough (challenge her to do this, it will help)
Me: but play like a champ and suck it up
Her: ok well let me know when you think of something bc i don't really want to insult myself ha (she thinks she beat the question, that is not the case)
Me: well u are going to do this for me
Me: (my number given, MAKE SURE you give your number, it will help with building more rapport and they will actually know who it is when you call or text them)
Me: name is sex ninja
Me: hope you got your pen and paper (call her out for earlier comment)
Her: ok i'll get a pen lol
Her: sex ninja?
Me: yup (you must act confident and stick with your made up name)
Her: may i ask what your expectations are for these calls? lol (she wants to know if i am just looking for a hook up or something more)
Me: expectations
Me: ?
Me: i don't believe in expectations
Me: i feel everything needs to come natural (this is a philosophy of a person in the pua community and i apply it to my own life)
Me: otherwise i lose sight of everything i am really looking for
Me: like hanging out at an ihop for 3 hrs (an earlier comment)
Her: the things that truly matter (at this point i avoided the question and sounded like i was in control of my life, alpha male status is magnified)
Me: yeah pretty much
Me: it helps if your a cutie, but that is alittle shallow for me
Me: if you can give me a different perspective on things i find that very attractive (give her an idea of what kind of girl you are looking for mentally and spiritually)
Me: like that you actually think and speak your mind
Her: whose else would i speak?
Me: true, but i hate yes girls
Me: it is soooo boring to talk to yes girls
Me: i would love it if you would disagree with me lol
Her: lol
Me: come up with a name yet lol
Her: 'yes girl' (she busted my balls, but you want a girl that can keep you in check and be fun)
Her: lol
Me: hahaha
Me: i am going to hate you
Me: lol
Her: that's impossible
Her: everyone loves me!
Her: i'm amazing
Me: amazing is my word
Me: u can have phenomenal (i like this game i play with girls, it shows you have an intellect and you are different from other guys)
Her: you don't own it (if she argues this, she is attracted to you)
Me: look it up
Her: although i like phenomenal (hook, line, sinker)
Me: totally copyright
Me: how about fantastical (make up words, girls find this to be funny and it helps keep the conversation going in the right direction)
Me: u just can't take amazing
Me: lol
Her: mmm... that makes me think of glittery unicorns or something weird like that
Her: i will use amzing whenever i damn well please
Me: hahahaha yeah i bet you have those at your place
Me: you have like pictures of unicorns and all things that are mystical
Her: absolutely... tons... here at neverland ranch
Her: ew
Me: alright michael jackson
Her: lol
Me: i am not a 10 year old boy
Her: damn (she is going with the joke, a huge IOI)
Me: u can't touch this (another thing i could have said was "i don't think your ready for this jelly" sounds sooo stupid, but trust me its gold (thank you Suave))
Her: are you a 9 year old boy?
Me: maybe
Her: YESSSSSSS
Me: but i could be that guy from to catch a predator
Her: wait
Her: uh uh uh
Me: don't show up at my house with a 6 pack of mikes hard and condoms
Her: LOL
Me: just warning u
Her: no. um, no. i would never.
Me: something tells me your a creeper (make her out to be the one trying to pursue you and that she needs to be the alpha female)
Me: lol
Her: damn. you caught on to that?
Her: how obvious is it?
Me: really obvious, i can see right through u
Me: like plastic wrap
Her: damn. oh well... on to the next. haha
Me: I think i am going to bed (be the one that ends the conversation always)
Her: yeah i think i'm going, too.
Her: bed would be AMAZING right now
Me: hahahaha i am coming to california to fight u
Me: cage match
Her: mmm i wouldn't if i were you
Me: and give me a reason
Me: actually give me 3
Me: go
Her: you may be a sex ninja *coughyeahrightcough* but i can break you... in 24 different ways
Her: there are 24 reasons
Me: i am all ears and eyes
Her: i don't tell you. the element of surprise is what i do. (flirting and wants to continue the conversation)
Me: alright alice
Me: stop living in wonderland (heard this on parental advisory, thought it was a great line)
Her: good one. lol
Me: i am full of good analogies
Me: and ninja moves
Her: right
Me: i learned from mr. miagie himself
Her: well i'm going to bed since you're already dreaming (thinks she can out think me)
Me: karate kid right here
Me: no dreamin baby, i am the real deal holyfield
Her: ha
Her: well i'm foreman and i'll ko you while cooking lean burgers on my grill
Me: i am going to own you like boardwalk and park place
Me: u don't pass go on me lady
Me: its going to be like the dream team vs. Australia
Her: lol i've heard that until i show a little community chest and then i monopolize it all
Me: you don't stand a chance
Her: lol
Me: hahahaha
Me: you are going to be like the detroit lions, u just can' win
Me: u are a distraction, i should be in bed, but now i have to think about how badly i am going win this
Me: but i am outta here (if you get caught in a situation like this, you must end the conversation, an alpha male can walk away at anytime)
Her: ha well you think about that while actually go to bed
Her: haha
Her: goodnight, then
Me: maybe, only when you play your cards just right
Me: later have fun in cali
Me: dorkface (make sure you get the last laugh)
Me: hahaha
Her: jerkwad
Her: lol
Try some of this stuff in your daily life, trust me, thats how I learned too.
Stay Classy,
Hotfire
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