Me: I really liked reading your profile, but i got to ask you a serious question...do you really like the movie sandlot or are you just trying to be funny? (in her profile it said she like the movie "the sandlot)
Her: Haha thanks. And yes, I actually do like The Sandlot. Is there something wrong with that? :) (seeking my approval)
Me: no, i just think its cute...can i ask you a super serious question? (i set the alpha frame, and ask a question to make her eager to answer)
Her: Yes, although I don't promise that I'll answer... (a confidence test, to see if you are alpha)
Me: what did u want to be when you grew up? (One of my favorite questions)
Her: Hm. Good question. I'm kind of weird in that I never had something I really wanted to be. I guess I never thought about the future, which wouldn't surprise me since I tend to go with the flow. Also, I haven't really grown up yet, so I still have time to think about that. Haha :) What did you want to be?
(she is nervous to answer, because she does not want to scare me off if she answer wrong because i have set the alpha frame of the conversation, so she asks me the same question)
Me: ninja turtle, but i realize i don't know karate, and the fact i wasn't a turtle so those were some minor setbacks, but anyways...whats something you always wanted to do? (I usually say something along these lines to act playful and not take it seriously at all, i mean lets face it you have to have some humor in your life, women love that)
Her: What?!! Hahaha. That's freaking awesome. Just minor setbacks... I'm sure you could learn karate and the ninja ways as well as receive some kind of plastic surgery if you still want to follow those dreams. Don't let anything hold you back. haha :)
I changed my mind a lot. There wasn't really anything that I always wanted to do. I remember at one point I wanted to work for NASA after our class took a field trip where we did some role play. I saved the astronauts from an emergency and thought it was the coolest thing ever. I think that was the longest lasting goal, but that changed long ago. I also wanted to be a wedding singer at one point when I was younger (lame, I know).
I knew that I would own at least one dog my entire life. Haha. That's really the only thing.
(Because she understands that i am playful and confident, she answers the question and even tells me something about her that most people don't know, she has instilled trust and now you can ask for a s/n or a phone number)
Me: Well after seeing it that way, i mean the painful surgeries and the green skin....i think i would look friggin sexy. So you can sing? you should serenade me with your Celine Dion voice. What kind of dog do you have? I use to have a dog, his name was Superdog, he rocked my socks off. (she mentioned she wanted to be a wedding singer, so i again pick up on that and run with it, she talks about having a dog, and we share interest. This is the point where you know that it is on)
Her: Guaranteed sexiness, although I've heard it's not easy being green. :) People tell me I have a good voice, but they also apparently tell that to those people who get laughed at on American Idol. I think I'm ok... but I'm no Celine Dion haha. Superdog? I'm pretty sure that's the most badass name ever. I have an Australian Shepherd and an Irish Setter. Well, the shepherd is mine. She's the best. The setter's my mom's and she's insane. And kind of dumb. lol
(She is locked in, and it is time for you to ask for a number or a s/n and go from there to where you can set up a meeting)
Me: who told you that, was it leo? i will pimp slap him later....give me your number.
Her: (number given)
Stay Classy,
Hotfire
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