I ditched this girl last week because something had come up and I wanted to do that, so i knew an argument about how I am an asshole and what not would come up, so this is what i did to avoid that....
Her: merry christmas to you too, butthead
Me: what the hell lady(taking the role of the angry person)
Me: did you fall off the face of the earth(putting her in a weird place because she is not expecting this at all)
Me: thats cool
Her: no, u did! (now thinking that she is in the wrong)
Me: no i called
Me: but no answer
Me: its cool
Her: what!
Her: i believe i called and texted you!
Her: and got nothin
Me: same here (she did text and call, but you can deny with not getting the messages, most phones have some problems with sending messages/phone went straight to voicemail)
Me: and i got nothing
Her: hmm
Her: thats weird
Her: i was mad at you for ditching me last week
Her: you were supposed to come over..remmeber?
Me: yeah and i called (called and i only made it to 1 ring)
Me: and no answer
Me: so i figured that if you wanted to grow up that you would (makes her sound like she was ditching you now)
Me: and that u would call me
Me: but again u didn't
Her: what?
Her: grow up? ok? (confused?you retain the alpha frame)
Me: i figured u were ditching me
Me: so i was mad at you
Her: ok..
Me: so are you ever going to call me?
Ends up calling me, i talk for a minute, tell her i have something to do really quick and tell her i will call back.......
Me: talk to me on this
Her: okay
Me: so yeah (make it seem like you are mad)
Her: are you still mad at me? i feel like this was a misunderstanding on both sides..
Me: i can get over it
Me: but u totally owe me (make her make it up to you)
Her: but i thought u were doing the same thing to me!
Me: yeah but i was really mad (get sympathy)
Me: and i thought you would never do something like that (cherry on top of all this, challenging her character)
Her: i dont know what you want me to say! im sorry for not getting your calls? (feels the heat, scrambles for an answer
Her: i would never intentionally do that to you
Her: if i didnt want to hang out with you i wouldnt invite you over
Me: well then we should fix that
Me: but i can't tonight or anything cause i have a flat tire (need an excuse to not sound needy, make her want to see you)
Her: okay
Her: well when do you want to get together?
Me: ummmm
Me: good question
Her: well
Me: i have to check my work
Me: and see when i am off
Her: ok
Me: but i would like to see u (come off as sensitive to her and her emotional side)
Her: and i would like to see you
Her: suga
Her: ;-)
Me: ur cute
Her: well thanks
Her: even though you're mad at me
Her: punkin (seeking my approval with cute pet names)
Her: ;-)
Me: i know right
And with that the fight is avoided and actually she is happy with you.....
Stay Classy,
Hotfire
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