To go from the edge of walkin the plank to getting to that first date...

This is a great example of how a woman gives you a test and how you make her want you more and more.....

Her: This isn't going to work, good luck finding a good girl.
Me: Why are you such an ass? (challenge her thinking)
Her: Idk...Because i'm not a patient person and you don't have time for me.....I require a lot of attention (Seeing if you are the guy she wants)
Her: Besides you act like I haven't been a complete ass this entire time.
Her: We don't know there will be a payoff
Me: Trust me it will payoff. (give her something to look forward to)
Her: Idk.... I honestly don't know what you have to offer me.
Me: I am just a good time waiting to happen (be general)
Her: I'm just saying that relationship wise idk how that would play out, your still in school. I live at home, we're both broke, and you are an hour away (looks at the negatives, must keep the convo positive)
Me: Well thats how most relationships start.
Her: But what a way to start something..... A new relationship is already difficult
Me: So do you always cry when something doesn't go your way? (tells her that you aren't going to take her shit)
Her: When something doesn't go my way?? Nothing has going my way! Why do you want to do this when you are so busy??
Me: Well i like your company. ( Be genuine)
Her: Maybe you should consider trying to be with a woman who isn't so much to handle.
Me: Well i wish i knew why i like you.
Her: Hah...Great, you don't even know why you like me!
Her: But you don't know why.
Me: So no one ever knows
Her: That's not true. Most people know why they like someone. I think you like the idea of me...
Me: Idea of you? i don't think it is that sweetheart (be alpha)
Her: Well why don't you talk to me when you figure it out. (don't think that its an ultimatium)
Me:Why should i HAVE to figure it out that wastes more time, i think you just are an excuse maker.
Her: Why are you trying if you don't even know why you like me....That makes no sense!!
Me: Well there considering all we do is text there isn't a whole lot to go off of just yet what are you doing right now? (trying to change the subject)
Her: That's exactly my fucking point....We never can find a time to talk or see each other and I'm tired of it. I'm working.
Me: Well the effort has to go both ways it can't just be all on me. (make her out to be the bad guy)
Her: Stop acting like you actually make some kind of real effort. I've been trying to get you on the phone and your never available except late, and i have a job..
Me: I just don't understand why you are freaking out when all we are doing is talking right now
Her: We're talking? No, we are texting that's not talking. Just forget it, its not going to work we both know it.
Me: See it could work you just don't give a fuck (flip the frame alittle bit)
Her: Oh its going to work by what....Never seeing or talking to you?? Yeah, that's helpful
Me: Well last time i checked texting is talking and you are acting childish. (still going with it)
Her: No its not....We don't talk about anything real and its not a real convo. Idk see why u care anyways...You have nothing invested in me and obiviously can have any other girl.
Me: Your right i could, but that isn't what i want (be alpha, and tell her that you can have any girl)
Her: Why?
Me: Cause i like who you are i think your funny and gorgeous and independent and someone that will challenge me (this is a generalization that all girls love, its in my quick text in my phone)
Her: That doesn't change the fact that I require attention you can't give me.
Me: So because i have a life and not kissing your feet i am the asshole. (the frame is almost flipped)
Her: No....Fuck, I wouldn't want to see you every day but at this rate, i'd see you once or twice a month if that..
Me: No you just have to make it thought this month and i am home every weekend for the summer.
Her: But you aren't going to want to see me every weekend... You have to spend time with your family and friends and i have a family too.
Me: Well i will be home every weekend for softball and i make time for everyone
Her: You say that now.
Me: I say that everyday cause i know how to manage my time
Her: That doesn't mean that the time you have available will be the time i'm available and vice versa...I often have odd times and don't stay out late. (she wants to see you and wants to know you will be there for her)
Me: I have time to make.
Her: Idk, we don't even know each other at all...
Me: All your fault lol (frame is flipped and your in the clear cause of that lol)
Her: Yup along with global wrming 9/11, and Bush being in office for 2 terms
Me: Haha now you understand lol
Her: Your a jackass lol...
Her: Well not too much just having a rough morning...
Me: I figured.
Her: FML...I'm bored, tired, and horny, i really don't think its fair that i am not getting laid.
Me: Haha your adorable. (alpha role achieved and she wants you)
Her: What are you doing tonight?

This was about an hr conversation through text that changed from her hating me and shutting
me out to me coming to see her tonight. Women love to challenge you, just be up for the battle.

Stay Classy,
Hotfire